I just read a post on boundnotgagged, calling for writings by the non-paying partners of sex workers. You know- spouses, booty calls, lovers, FWBs, boyfriends, girlfriends, all the usual relationships people have outside work. This sounds like a really great project and I’m looking forward to reading it. Feel free to pass this on to anyone who might want to write for the book.  The contact info for the editor is below. _____________________...

When Rikki Waters's date sees her beautiful bod and her big, fleshy ass, he must stick it to her. He's lucky he has friends at XLGirls.com. This is Rikki's first time here and the question is, "what took her so long?" Rikki says that on the Internet she is known as Darling Rikki where she is a plus-size fem-dom who bosses dudes around. "I like to top men," Rikki says. Well, you know what that means and it ain't the cowgirl position. L...

I had a lovely time at the Footnight party last night. It was nice to put real-life faces to people I've only known electronically ? Hi Trixie! I also got to meet the organizer, Kourhina, which was great, and a bunch of other pretty ladies.And I adore having my feet kissed and touched, so having lots of lovely people doing that was just delicious. I went to some of these parties a couple of years ago, and then they stopped happening for a while. ...

Images by the incredible rick, from this gorgeous set of the No on 8 protest last Friday here in San Francisco. See also: pups against 8. My SF Chronicle column went live last night and the comments exploded (630 as of this post). Some beautiful, some hateful — I am being called anti-straight (which amuses my boyfriend), and anti-Semitic (for calling Mel Gibson “Mel Gibstein”). And other things — but the most inspiring com...

It finally happened. It took a two-year courtship and multiple proposals but last week Barack Obama asked us to marry him and we, the people said yes. Congratulations, we're engaged. Yet the joy for many of us is tempered by the passing of Proposition 8. The country has come so far in electing an African-American president and at the same time the blue state of California has voted to ban gay marriage. One prejudice was torn asunder while anothe...

Here at Fleshbot, we wear many different hats: in just one day of work, we'll write about both gay and straight porn, the world of lad mags and the world of hardcore porn, celebrity nip slips and sex tape scandals, and both Gemma Atkinson and Gemma Arterton (who are never, never to be confused). So we have a bit of appreciation for others who are able to do the same sort of juggling, especially when they're as pretty as Sienna Sinclaire. Sure, Si...

Good Vibrations. Though this has recently changed, GV is still recognized for its women-owned and -operated birth and upbringing. (And, for you feminist skeptics, is maintaining that air quite well - but this is beside the point). With this reputation, it seems that some of you hetero-presenting bio-boys are a little shy to come in with or without your female-bodied partners. Maybe you feel like you are not our “target audience”, mayb...

In some ways, Next Door Hookups is a lot like just about any other hardcore pro-am porn site. Smiling, fresh faced couples having fun (and having sex), copy that talks about how they're eager young college students who just love to fuck on camera (and would even do it for free!). But look closely, and you might notice a few things that seem a little, well, off. For one thing, the text that accompanies each movie or photo set spends a lot of time ...

A look back at the week that was... · That election sure was stressful, wasn't it? But at least we ended up with a leader we can trust. Two of them, even! · Speaking of elections, say good-bye to the Bush Administration. Oh, and the one with George Bush in it, too. · Her ass is so big, it broke our tape measure. · Here we go again: Extreme Pornstar Showdown enters round two. Can you handle the extremeness? · You...

Image from this gallery. Image from this gallery. As they say on Robot Chicken, now that’s a tweeest. I think I’ve posted one or two galleries from Next Door Hookups in the past when they’re tasty, but now this gay site is going all the way and is in full production swing making straight porn. “The hottest trend in gay porn these days is straight porn filmed for a gay audience. With the focus on the male performer(s), as o...

Today, a book recommendation. If you haven't read this already, you should. It used to be shocking - now it's a classic book of American sexual history: Thy Neighbor's Wife, a non-fiction book by Gay Talese, originally published in 1981. It's out of print now, but you can buy it used for practically nothing.It's hard to describe what kind of book Thy Neighbors Wife is. "Narrative nonfiction" is the best way to say it, I think. It's an exploration...

"Sometimes at school I'll get so worked up and horny that I'll run straight home, lock myself in my room and play with myself until I fall asleep from exhaustion. It makes me feel naughty, especially when my mum is knocking on the door, asking me what I'm doing in there for so long. If only she knew her daughter was naked with her fingers in her cunny, wishing that it was a boy's willy in there pumping away!" See More of Mia at ...

Copenhagens Fetish Club ManiFest is celebrating it’s 10 year anniversary! The club, which grew to be the biggest fetish club in Scandinavia, had it’s first party at the Club Blue Note in Central Copenhagen, back in 1998. Since then the club moved around different venues in and around Copenhagen. More than 4.000 people are have been member of it by now! The 10 year anniversary of ManiFest will be hold on Saturday the 8th of November at...