Now that we all have digital cameras or webcams or iPhones or some sort of photo device that doesn't require third party processing, pretty much everyone out there has taken a photo or video of themselves en flagrante delicto—even celebrities (they're just like us!). The difference, of course, is that when your sex tape (or our sex tape) goes public, it really only matters to an audience of tens—as opposed to the tens of thousands (or...

Wow. I started this book a year ago this month, and now — it’s done, I just finished and uploaded it and it’s for sale! I’m so wiped out, I’m just going to give you the sales text below to describe it — but my major excitement on top of completing this huge project is: * Each .pdf chapter is hyperlinked to the podcast so you can listen and read. In fact, this book is linked to the gills to how-to videos, retai...

Image from this gallery. Image from this gallery. As they say on Robot Chicken, now that’s a tweeest. I think I’ve posted one or two galleries from Next Door Hookups in the past when they’re tasty, but now this gay site is going all the way and is in full production swing making straight porn. “The hottest trend in gay porn these days is straight porn filmed for a gay audience. With the focus on the male performer(s), as o...

Robert and I just got back this afternoon from Salt Lake City ? yes, the one in Utah, filled with the very people whose zillions of dollars in contributions have made California's Proposition 8, the anti-gay-marriage initiative, poll neck-and-neck. Yes, that would be the Mormons, but I am here to tell you that some, perhaps many (who knows?) Mormons are renegades, and when we go to SLC, we visit a group I fondly call the "jack Mormon perverts": a...

First there was The Mammary Game, where memory games meet lots and lots of boobs; now Mary Carey makes a cameo appearance on a website for Sturdy Wings, the movie's Big Brother/Big Sister-style mentoring program. Not only is Mary a pornstar—she's also a proud mentor, one who loves sharing her impressive oral skills with the children in her life. Oral meaning vocabulary, you perv. Now if only they could make a promo where we get to see Mary ...

Got this in my Sexual Intelligence newsletter this morning and thought it was pretty good, so here it is with my notes: Dear President Obama: For months, I’ve been predicting that when you win, nothing will change regarding sex. I’ve said you won’t stop the government’s War On Sex; you won’t demand respect for sexual rights as human rights; you won’t prevent religious fanatics from controlling non-believersR...

The ACLU, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights have filed a writ petition asking the California Supreme Court to invalidate Proposition 8 if it passes. It seems that the state constitution requires any change to the underlying principles of the document to be approved by the state legislature BEFORE being voted on by the public. Since that didn’t happen, the writ is claiming that the proposition is invalid. Two points, b...

The Liberte doesn't really look like a vibrator. Though really, the Liberte doesn't look like much of anything: with its pale yellow casing, long thin neck, and round head, it doesn't particularly look like any ordinary day-to-day object. Eternal sex toy optimist that I am, it struck me that out of the ordinary looks might lead to extraordinary orgasms. So I did what any good researcher would do: sat down and prepared myself for a long, hard even...

I don’t know about you, but I know so very little about sexuality in Iran and countries from that part of the world that I’m really hungry for information about what’s going on there — especially with the influence of the Internet and peer-to-peer tech communication (enabling privacy in public), the inevitably changing world, and Western influences. I’m especially dying to know what the kids are doing and how their s...

I’m still going to tell you to “close your eyes and think of Tina Fey” (which some of us were already doing long before the talent portion of the debates). Though to keep us all on track before November, because some of us now actually confuse the Republican VP candidate with being a porn performer — it’s the other way around, dear readers — I’m pleased to point you to my pals at YesButNoButYes who have a...

Skyie wants to do the unthinkable. She wants to drop weight! Good God, someone talk to this poor girl! Brainwashed by idiotic movies, celebrity rags and crap TV shows like Next Top Model, Dr. 90210 and The Biggest Loser that encourage bad eating patterns, breast reductions and delusionary beliefs, Skyie is being hypnotized into an unrealistic behavioral patterns. Enter the two Double-Stuffed Plumpers heroes--true American heroes--who ...

The Tanni Machine is a lightweight, lovely functional art piece made of oak that makes it possible to penetrate yourself without an awkward reach. It costs about $200, comes in Natural or Black, and while it doesn’t match the smooth, hands-free glide of the Monkey Rocker, it’s also a quarter of the price. The comparison is inevitable. Both machines are hand-made. Both aim for a subtle aesthetic, not an industrial or high-tech vibe. A...

Random Sex Tip #47It's been my observation that very often, when men are having trouble having an orgasm, it's because they're thinking about it too much. (Absent there being a real physiological issue there, of course ? fatigue, for example, or a prescription drug that's slowing things down.)It could be work matters that are intruding into his mind, or some nagging bit of sexual anxiety. It happens to women, too, of course. But I think with men,...