Allysa watches a lot of porn. Not only that, she oversees it. As a sales associate at an adult shop in Florida, Allysa knows what guys like to see. "XL Girls magazines and videos are some of our best sellers," she said. "So I know men like bigger girls like me. I get all kinds of attention from the customers myself. That used to bother me. I thought they were just pulling my leg and making fun of me. But then I noticed that they were ...

Get your copy here. It’s not supposed to be on shelves until December 11, but it’s shipping *now* (and I got my hands on a red-hot copy). Best Women’s Erotica 2009 is my newest anthology — explicit lit by women, written by astoundingly talented women from all over the world. It’s so fucking hot that when I read the first story in the collection to my lover, I was instantly jumped and deliciously molested. True story....

I was absolutely delighted this week to get an email from the chefs (Mrs. and Mr. Muki) at humorous fetish site Muki’s Kitchen, thanking me for yearly Thanksgiving links — and sending me some freebees to share with you this holiday. They also wanted me to know that they love my website and that while last year I commented that their site didn’t look like it had been updated in a while — it has. They told me, “While ...

Some of us are amused by clowns, some of us are scared of clowns... and some of us are turned on by clowns. We don't pretend to fully understand the latter group—though after watching this clip, we're a little bit closer to getting it. (The naked clown calendar, however, still remains a mystery.) . . . ://www.redtube.com/16519">Shagged well by a clown (redtube.com)

More book stuff...I'm reading Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers, and it's interesting. I liked Blink a great deal, and Tipping Point was also thought-provoking. I'm generally inclined to like Gladwell's ideas and think they have some merit, even though he certainly has his critics.But I'd like to quote you a lengthy passage because it supports what I feel about being a truly high-ranking dominant. It's a neat refutation of that nonsense I occasion...

Well, it seems Jakki Degg's not the only one who can make a super hot, yet totally useless, "calendar." There's a group of 26 luscious and large ladies who are more than happy to get their calendar on—and, what's more, since it's a "softcore" calendar, it's totally "work environment friendly." Be sure to explain that to you coworkers when they complain about your hot, topless BBWs. We're sure they'll totally understand. · BBW Calenda...

This was posted on AVN.com and I thought it might be helpful to cancer survivors and their partners. As a SESA I spoke with many women trying to find their way back to intimacy after surviving cancer. It wasn't just the changes in how their bodies reacted to stimulation but it was also about re-learning how to connect with their partners. I think it's great that researchers put effort & time into looking at this effect of cancer on women: Stu...

This past Friday night, Penthouse threw a release party at Los Angeles's Boulevard 3 in celebration of the upcoming movies "Liar's Club" and "Scandalous," directed by Randy Spears and Kelly Holland. Presented by JR Petro Productions and Another Jaw Dropping Productions, the event was attend by pets like Fleshbot Crush Object and host (and my ex-fiance) Justine Joli, Daisy Marie, Kayden Kross, Renae, Tori Black, and the luscious Lux Cassidy (and, ...

Vivid Magazine, a Cambridge University student publication (not to be confused with this), recently caused a bit of a stir with a pictorial of their very own topless Page Three girl. The risque image marked the first time a student had appeared topless in a Cambridge publication... and folks were none too happy about it. From what we can tell, the fallout has been pretty severe—when we attempted to do some, ahem, investigation into the issu...

There's a lot of sex worker stuff in the news lately, isn't there?So yes, I've been reading about the busts at the tanning salon/brothels on Aurora Ave. I have some sympathy for the female manager who got arrested, seeing as how I once managed a "sensual touch" business myself. And just because you read something in the paper doesn't make it true. However, if she and the owner really were running women in and out of other states, through three di...

Alexis Silver remembered how SCORE found her in the UK, in this month's interview. "Well, it was about five years ago, I think, so I would've been 23. I was lap dancing at the time, and the guys were like, 'Oh, you should do Page 3,' which in the UK is the tabloid newspapers, and on the third page they have pictures of topless girls. So I contacted a studio in Leeds and said, 'I want to do some glamour modeling.' As it turned out, I ...

I’ve been inspired lately and I’ve been reading a lot of articles and blogs about porn. The first thing that I have to say is that many of them seem to be written by people with very little actual information about the industry. I’ve been with Good Vibrations for 12 years now, and I’ve learned quite a bit about the porn world, so I can say with some authority that it’s much more complex than most of the portrayals of...

Image by Eros Arts. What does the Traditional Values Coalition have to do with the government’s funding and scientific studies about research on human sexuality and the science of sex? Well, *nothing*. Yet, sexual anything stays muzzled (or bound, if you will) thanks to… ideology. But read this great piece Scientists see political attacks as badge of pride, at Ars Technica to see the connections: The use of science by politicians hop...