The other day, Kuono posted about the latest round of anti-porn efforts. I’ve seen these sorts of things come and go, but for the first time in a long time, I sat down and watched their promo video. I agree with Kuono that it’s ironic that the anti-porn people are using porn to make their point. And that they’re not ensuring that everyone who attends one of their events is over 18. I think that’s completely irresponsible, ...

It finally happened. It took a two-year courtship and multiple proposals but last week Barack Obama asked us to marry him and we, the people said yes. Congratulations, we're engaged. Yet the joy for many of us is tempered by the passing of Proposition 8. The country has come so far in electing an African-American president and at the same time the blue state of California has voted to ban gay marriage. One prejudice was torn asunder while anothe...

Here at Fleshbot, we wear many different hats: in just one day of work, we'll write about both gay and straight porn, the world of lad mags and the world of hardcore porn, celebrity nip slips and sex tape scandals, and both Gemma Atkinson and Gemma Arterton (who are never, never to be confused). So we have a bit of appreciation for others who are able to do the same sort of juggling, especially when they're as pretty as Sienna Sinclaire. Sure, Si...

What can you do with a hypnotized woman? Well, we guess you could do just about anything you want with her, especially if she's dressed in little more than black strings and bows. The following science experiment attempts to prove that hypothesis, with the assistance of, um, two porn stars in a hotel room (okay, we're not totally convinced yet). But if we are to believe this "science," it would seem that it's possible to make a hypnotized woman h...

In some ways, Next Door Hookups is a lot like just about any other hardcore pro-am porn site. Smiling, fresh faced couples having fun (and having sex), copy that talks about how they're eager young college students who just love to fuck on camera (and would even do it for free!). But look closely, and you might notice a few things that seem a little, well, off. For one thing, the text that accompanies each movie or photo set spends a lot of time ...

Image from this gallery. Image from this gallery. As they say on Robot Chicken, now that’s a tweeest. I think I’ve posted one or two galleries from Next Door Hookups in the past when they’re tasty, but now this gay site is going all the way and is in full production swing making straight porn. “The hottest trend in gay porn these days is straight porn filmed for a gay audience. With the focus on the male performer(s), as o...

Robert and I just got back this afternoon from Salt Lake City ? yes, the one in Utah, filled with the very people whose zillions of dollars in contributions have made California's Proposition 8, the anti-gay-marriage initiative, poll neck-and-neck. Yes, that would be the Mormons, but I am here to tell you that some, perhaps many (who knows?) Mormons are renegades, and when we go to SLC, we visit a group I fondly call the "jack Mormon perverts": a...

November is National Novel Writing Month! (Though others might be more concerned about National Novel Finishing Month… ) For me, I’ll consider it National Novel READING Month, as there are a ton of excellent Erotic Novels, BDSM/Fetish Novels, and if I’m feeling particularly A.D.D. I’ll cheat with some short stories. Here’s 5 Novels from GV’s book collection: Carrie’s Story Molly Weatherfield This thoroug...

Porn kills! Not really. But I wish stupidity hurt, like, a lot. Great image of Nicole Lee Suicide by vice48sr5005. There’s a new anti-porn movement in town, and it’s — the feminists again. I know, whatta letdown. But I’ve got quite a few surprises in this week’s column, Please Use Porn Responsibly: Violet Blue’s concerns about the new anti-porn feminist agenda. No, you won’t believe what these people are ...

Image to stimulate your economy by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik. Two things: one, here’s HR Reality Check’s voter guide: RH Reality 2008 Election and Reproductive Health (via Viviane). Next, You really have to read my dear friend Carol Queen’s blog post about visiting Salt Lake City, Utah before the election “I Can't Help Myself: Must?Write?About?Elections?” Here’s a teaser: (…) This was a very int...

As the iPhone has grown and matured, so, too, has iPhone porn. And so it is that we've just discovered the world's first iPhone live cam site—one that's so cutting edge, it won't even work on your real computer. Yes, kids: in order to access the sweet, sweet cam action of Xgoes.mobi, you must already have your very own iPhone. But is it worth the several hundred dollar investment? (Or, for the iPhone owners out there, the website's membersh...

Today, a book recommendation. If you haven't read this already, you should. It used to be shocking - now it's a classic book of American sexual history: Thy Neighbor's Wife, a non-fiction book by Gay Talese, originally published in 1981. It's out of print now, but you can buy it used for practically nothing.It's hard to describe what kind of book Thy Neighbors Wife is. "Narrative nonfiction" is the best way to say it, I think. It's an exploration...

I have had the good fortune to attend a number of gay weddings this season. There have been many. With proposition 8 proposing to end gay proposals people have been promiscuously popping the question. Straight people, if you are thinking of getting married, I highly recommend attending a gay wedding. The Unitarian Universalist Church on Franklin and Geary will be holding a marathon of them from November 1-4. Really, go, you'll learn something i...