Image by Option8. Carol Queen just sent me this story in the Guardian UK Porn bill for couple who can’t download, which I’d been looking at with a furrowed brow for the past day or so trying to put all the pieces together. And it clicked. You’ll see in the URL string that it says “porn bill mistake” but I think there’s likely something much more malfeasant than a mistake behind the P-2-P (peer to peer file shar...

And why not? Looks like everyone’s having fun! You know how I love to share the freebees. Click through to see a couple short hot clips (no pixelation — looks like it was made for the American market, most are .wmv files). The “instant access” tour has more free entertainment. And if Lestai isn’t your flavor, I found a gay male hentai clip site, too… * Nunsense! * Office mischief. * Schoolgirl fantasy — ...

I’ve heard a lot of people talking about sex-positivity, especially on teh interwebs. But I don’t see as much clarity around it as I’d like. So here’s my take on what it. First off, what sex-positivity isn’t: Sex-positivity isn’t about how much sex you have, how many partners you have, what types of sex you have, or how often you have it. It’s not about being wild and crazy. It’s not about being a s...

I’ve been inspired lately and I’ve been reading a lot of articles and blogs about porn. The first thing that I have to say is that many of them seem to be written by people with very little actual information about the industry. I’ve been with Good Vibrations for 12 years now, and I’ve learned quite a bit about the porn world, so I can say with some authority that it’s much more complex than most of the portrayals of...

There has been some really great offers to write stuff and blessedly great folks that I respect and admire appreciating something I never gave all that much thought (other then fantasy) to: Writing. I am a compulsive writer, so much so their is actually some sort of diagnoses for it. I don't much understand why something so wonderful for people to do gets lumped into some sort of disorder. Just last night I was watching “The Notorious Betty...

Last week we invited you to ask Digital Playground contract star (and newly elected Fleshbot Supreme Commandress) Stoya whatever questions sprung to mind: this week, Stoya is back with her answers. Whether it's how she feels about her trademark (TM), what sex toys she enjoys, or advice on how to fix your relationships, Stoya has all the answers. . . . Hey Stoya, work! I find you simply amazing. I normally enjoy larger breasted females but there...

Image of Mina Model + Captive Culture freshly immortalized in skin and ink. Apologies for the spooky quiet around here; it’s been a busy couple of days — oh, and I took a day off! No way! Hacker Boy and I rode cable cars, plus he uploaded some photos leftover from this year’s SF pride parade with more of me and Margaret Cho, plus general cuteness in No on 8 stickers (circa last June). Oh, and I went to Ariel’s birthday par...

I’ve been a sex educator since 1989, when I started doing queer outreach in college. That’s exactly 1/2 of my life, since I turned 38 this year. Every now and then, I notice how that has influenced the lenses that I view the world with. In the articles and blogs that I’ve read about porn, every so often, someone talks about the “cum shot“. For the most part, I see people talking about it as objectification of women, ...

I just read a post on boundnotgagged, calling for writings by the non-paying partners of sex workers. You know- spouses, booty calls, lovers, FWBs, boyfriends, girlfriends, all the usual relationships people have outside work. This sounds like a really great project and I’m looking forward to reading it. Feel free to pass this on to anyone who might want to write for the book.  The contact info for the editor is below. _____________________...

Here’s that piece I kept Twittering about, finally finished after a month that included a death, a wedding, and the beginning of my move back to northern California. My Computer Made Me Gay A computer game introduces one woman to bisexual experimentation?and a girlfriend. By Regina Lynn. “I see an exciting adventure in your future, a new sexual experience that forever changes you,” she said, tracing the sole of my foot with one...

And we have the babes to help you do just that... · Antea (kindgirls.com) · Ariel Rebel (sweettanda.com) · Carmella (100bucksbabes.com) · Clare (nextbabes.com) · Dawson Miller (teenport.com) · Gayle (hq69.com) · Georgia (babesdiary.com) · Jazz (babesdump.net) · Jessica (novoporn.com) · Lily (babesandbitches.net) · Louise Glover (shermsshack.com) · Maya Gate...

Katy Perry, best known for her single “I Kissed a Girl” from now will be also known for her wardrobe malfunction (oops!) at a charity concert in Canada. Your favorite celebrity blog has pictures for you! Since this is first post about Katy, let’s write something about her. I don’t want to post bio or something, just interesting stuff. Her two songs, “Ur So Gay” and already mentioned “I Kissed a Girl”...

Images by the incredible rick, from this gorgeous set of the No on 8 protest last Friday here in San Francisco. See also: pups against 8. My SF Chronicle column went live last night and the comments exploded (630 as of this post). Some beautiful, some hateful — I am being called anti-straight (which amuses my boyfriend), and anti-Semitic (for calling Mel Gibson “Mel Gibstein”). And other things — but the most inspiring com...