Intimate moments in hugely public spaces are divine. Image via obama blackfolk. In my San Francisco Chronicle column this week, I basically write an open letter to Barack and Michelle Obama (and the nation) about the urgency of saving our kids from thr perils of current sex ed programs, and tell them exactly how to do it. As a side note, there are just too damn many insanely sexy pictures of Barack and Michelle to choose just one for this post &...

Image by phheww. There are SO many hot boys in this world. It’s a great place to live in, no? Of course, I think my Hacker Boy is the hottest, though don’t let that make you think I’m not on the prowl to do The Right Thing and point you at all the young narcissian gods I found this week… Phew. No, I mean phheww, because this week he’s the one with the fuck-me self portraits and the sets to truly brag about. If you d...

Image by NW Sunshine. “The 3rd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals today upheld a lower court ruling striking down the controversial Child Online Protection Act (COPA) that required Web operators to restrict access to large amounts of constitutionally protected speech. COPA placed severe restrictions on a wide range of legal, socially valuable speech, including content relating to sexual identity, health and art. CDT, which has filed friend-of-t...

Image via Map Girls. When I had a porn article in Oprah I was like, whoa, mainstream — but now it’s looking like even the more straitlaced media outlets are ponying up to *finally* viewing sex culture as a constantly relevant set of issues worth covering, in all its myriad forms. And this is a good, *good* thing. Well, we hope it will be anyway — normalizing cultural conversations around sex is one of the main reasons I’m...

Image by Aaron Hawks, via erofantasian. Friend and colleague Rachel Kramer Bussel has a new book out — I just got my hands on a copy of Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica (it’s great), and she’s is full promo mode, with a fun spanking blog, virtual book tour and she even made a relatively safe-for-work video to go with it. There’s no nudity in the video, but Vimeo and Flickr pulled it — while other sites who know how to s...

This morning on Adrants, Steve Hall posted about That Boing Boing Thing, specifically the video I made a couple days ago with the same name, where I attempt to explain WTF!? exclusively in the words of MetaFilter commenters. I also try to speak in disemvowel. You will like. Is a humorous salve after the maliciousness and ongoing, bizarre flippancy. Thank you, Adrants! Also, last night I was cruising FluffyFeets just for, erm, kicks, and came acro...

Image by bettie.bondage. I’ve had the extreme, distinct pleasure of working with erotic writing luminary M. Christian for many years, and I can even call him a longtime friend as well as colleague. He’s penned more truly excellent, joyfully filthy verbiage than anyone can imagine, and he wrote that San Francisco erotic gay vampire mystery novel I loved, The Very Bloody Marys. Peeking at his blog, I’m overjoyed to see that he...

Maids are supposed to clean things, but as we’ve all learned on the internet, even if they clean stuff up they often make us feel all kinds of dirty on the inside. This Fall, Geisha Tokyo Entertainment plans to capitalize on all of that with the nifty little virtual sex companion Cyber Figure Alice (called “Dennoh Figure ARis”, an “Cyber-Maid Augmented Reality device”). Before getting too excited, know that it will ...

Harvesting pearls is a high-risk work environment that often requires improvised tools to be fashioned out of clothing. Here, Yara A, Uma B, Adriana E and Milana B provide a glimpse into their thankless toil. Pretty girls, naked, happy and cute! Late, but I think there’s still a *little* bit of weekend left… The galleries I liked this last week include Hungarian Linda L who’s just pretty; hot Jenya D who forgot to take of her j...

Image via phheww. This is actually a non-sex post, so feel free to skip right over it. However, it’s about a lot of things in my life — it’s guerrilla vlogging, it’s made by two people who are personal family, and it’s seriously badass when it comes to tutorials. Watch and learn, from the basics to the controversial — modern phone hacking by Citizen Engineer. Embedded here: 2948?pg=embed&sec=1362948">Citi...

Image via Rafa Lopez. If you have the time, do check out as much of the high-fashion erotic photography and mind-blowing celebrity hotness to be found on Steven Klein Studio. Wow. I mean, wow. The site is in Flash and the navigation leaves a *lot* to be desired, but it’s well worth it. Here’s a video of Pitt and Jolie comprised of Klein’s photos featured on the site: The Madonna horse + pony-play fetish series for W Magazine a...

Much has been written (or at least alluded to) about how to *actually* fuck like a porn star. My column Sex for money, not love: Violet Blue asks rising adult superstar Lorelei Lee about the differences between sex work and sex not-for-work covered it; last week Frisky’s ran the odd article “Five Tips For Screwing Like A Porn Star”. It is sex-positive, but… erm, interesting. Hats off to Lux for taking the fluffiness, addin...

Image by Kitty Maer and Wolfgang Parker. I was poking around Chas Ray Krider’s blog — he of the incredible Motel Fetish photo series — and saw that he had work up over in Stern.de’s free erotic galleries. Then I realized I hadn’t looked at their galleries in a long, time. They’re highly recommended if you want to goo and ga at beautiful girls photographed by some seriously talented erotic/fetish photographers....